Half the population is bullied ... most recognize it only when they read this
Half the population is bullied ... most recognize it only when they
read this
Updated 12 November 2005
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Bullying at work |
Stress |
Authoritarian systems
Bullying and child suicide |
Trauma, PTSD and psychiatric injury
Sexual harassment |
Harassment, violence and stalking |
New! Anger
Violent partners |
Abuse |
Whistleblowing |
Violence at work |
Freemasonry
Psychopathic Personality |
The damage caused by a psychopath in the family
Female violence | Violence |
Narcissism |
School bullying |
Gay issues
Assertiveness, building self-confidence and self-esteem
Books recommended by readers, surfers and survivors
Bullying at work
Bully in sight: how to
predict, resist, challenge and combat workplace bullying, Tim Field, Success
Unlimited, 1996, ISBN 0952912104. Foreword by Diana Lamplugh OBE. An insider's view
which validates the experience of bullying, identifies the serial bully, and describes the
injury to health caused by bullying and harassment. Over 11,000 copies sold in
over 40 countries.
[Order a
signed copy]
Bullying at Work, Andrea Adams with Neil Crawford,
Virago, 1992, ISBN 185381542X. The seminal book on workplace bullying.
Mobbing: Emotional Abuse in the American Workplace, Davenport, Schwartz and Elliott, Civil Society Publishing, 2nd edition 2002, ISBN 0967180309. Cost $15.95 ($23.95 in Canada). More information about the book, how to order, and other resources at www.mobbing-usa.com
Work abuse: how to recognize and survive it, Judith Wyatt & Chauncey Hare, Schenkman Books, 1997, $19.95, ISBN 0870471090 [For details email schenkma@sover.net; Schenkman's web site is at http://www.sover.net/~schenkma/]
Fighting Back: overcoming bullying in the workplace, David Graves, McGraw Hill, 2002, ISBN 0077099516
Dignity at Work: Eliminate Bullying and Create a Positive Working Environment, Pauline Rennie Peyton, Brunner Routledge, 2003
The Dragon Complex: strategies for identifying and conquering workplace abuse, Winnifred Taylor PhD, Patrick C Dorin PhD, John Taylor PhD
Bullying in the Workplace - an occupational Hazard, Helene Richards and Sheila Freeman, HarperCollins, May 2002.
Abuse in the Workplace: Management Remedies and Bottom Line Impact, Emily S. Bassman, Quorum, 1992, Westport, CT, ISBN 089930673X
Brutal Bosses and their Prey: How to Identify and Overcome Abuse in the Workplace, Harvey A Hornstein, Riverhead Books, New York, 1996, ISBN 057322586X, pbk
Adult bullying: perpetrators and victims, Peter Randall, Routledge, 1996, ISBN 0415126738.
Bullying in Adulthood: assessing the bullies and their victims, Peter Randall, Brunner-Routledge, 2001, ISBN 0415236932
Corporate Hyenas at Work! How to spot and outwit them by being Hyenawise, Susan Marais and Magriet Herman, Kagiso Publishers, November 1997, R75.00, ISBN 0798648856
The Verbally Abusive Relationship: how to recognize it and how to respond, Patricia Evans, Adams, ISBN 1558505822. Recommended, especially if you're dealing with a psychologically violent partner, co-worker, or manager.
Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal with People Who Try to Control You, Patricia Evans, Adams Media Corporation, ISBN 158062569X, January 2002
The gentle art of verbal self defense, Suzette Haden Elgin S H, Barnes and Noble Books, New York, 1980, 1993, ISBN 0880290307 (purely responsive tactical advice) [see http://adrr.com/lingua/index.htm for links to Dr Elgin's work]
More on the gentle art of verbal self defense, Elgin S H, Barnes and Noble Books, New York, 1983, 1997, ISBN 076070421X (builds tactics into proactive strategy)
Toxic Coworkers: How to Deal with Dysfunctional People on the Job: Working with the narcissists, borderlines, sociopaths, schizoids, and others, Alan A Cavaiola PhD and Neil J Lavender PhD, New Harbinger Publications; 1st edition, 2000
New! The Corporation: the pathological pursuit of profit and power, Joel Bakan
Silent Hell: workplace violence and bullying, Dr Charmaine Hockley, March
2002, ISBN 1876087544, for details and order form email
charmainehockley@ozemail.com.au
Workplace Bullying – a costly business secret, Andrea Needham, New Zealand's first
book on workplace bullying, available 16 September 2003
Workplace Bullying and Harassment: A Toolbox For Managers and Supervisors, Hayden Olsen, CCH New Zealand Ltd, 2005
Harassment, Bullying and Violence at Work, Angela Ishmael with Bunmi Alemoru, 1999, ISBN 1858351049
Bullying and Stress in the Workplace: Employers and Employees - A Guide, John Eardly, First Law Limited, Dublin
Bullying and sexual harassment, Tina Stephens, IPD, 1999, £9.99, ISBN 0852928254
Bullying in the workplace: an organisational toolkit, Elaine Douglas, Gower Publishing, 2001, £95, ISBN 0566084082 (paperback) or ISBN 0566082756 (loose-leaf)
Bully Off!, Jo Clifton and Heather Serdar, Russell House Publishing, 2000, ISBN 189894466X, £14.95 + £1.50 p&p, 91pages A4 spiral bound for easy photocopying. Email help@russellhouse.co.uk, tel 01297 443948
The Bullying Culture [in the NHS], Ruth Hadikin and Muriel O'Driscoll, Butterworth-Heinemann, 2000, ISBN 075065201
Bully Proof, Jean Kelly, Aurora Books (Aurorabk@aol.com), 1999, £9.99, ISBN 0953531406
Bullyproof yourself at work! Personal strategies to stop the hurt from harassment, Gary Namie PhD & Ruth Namie PhD, DoubleDoc Press, 1999, ISBN 0966862953
The Bully at Work, Gary Namie and Ruth Namie, Sourcebooks Inc., paperback 287 pp $14.95
Workplace Bullying, Charlotte Rayner, Helge Hoel and Cary Cooper, October 2001, Taylor & Francis, 11 New Fetter Lane, London EC4P 4EE, Tel +44 (0)8700 768853 or +44 (0)1264 343 071, email Elizabeth Lyell for an order form.
Bullying: From Backyard to Boardroom, McCarthy-Sheehan-Wilkie (Eds), Federation Press, May 2001, [UK/Europe: Blackstone Press, tel 0208 740 1173; fax 0208 743 2292; New Zealand: Dunmore Press. tel +6 358 7169, fax + 6 357 9242; North America: Wm W Gaunt & Son. tel + 800 942 8683, fax +813 778 5252] [More details at http://cwpp.slq.qld.gov.au/bba/]
Tilting at Windmills: memoirs of a school governor, Justine Williams, Berwick Press, ISBN 0-9548276-0-0, 2004, a cautionary tale of corporate bullying (and a story familiar to any bullied teacher)
The Black Holes in the Blueprint: the story of teacher abuse in the USA by San Diego City Schools music teacher Janice Howes (and a story familiar to any bullied teacher)
Beware the Sharks in Education - A Teacher's Perspective by Jeannie Crowder, 1st Books, 2004
Breaking the silence: overcoming the problem of principal mistreatment of teachers, Joseph Blase and Jo Blase, Corwin Press, August 2002
Eliminating professors: a guide to the dismissal process, Kenneth Westhues, Kempner Collegium Publications, 1998, ISBN 0773482105
Workplace Mobbing in Academe, Kenneth Westhues, Edwin Mellen Press, 2005, ISBN 0773462341
Administrative Mobbing at the University of Toronto: the Trial, Degradation, and Dismissal of a Professor during the Presidency of J.Robert S. Prichard, Kenneth Westhues, Mellen Press, 2004
Bullying, Issues, Volume 13, a concise, comprehensive and readable overview of child and adult bullying by leading authorities. Independence Educational Publishers, PO Box 295, Cambridge CB1 3XP, UK, Tel +44 (0)1223 566130 Fax +44 (0)1223 566131, credit card orders +44 (0)1223 576435
Stop mobbing. Resistere alla violenza psicologica sul posto di lavoro (Stop mobbing. Resisting psychological violence at work), Antonio A. Casilli, Rome, DeriveApprodi, 2000. In Italian. Foreword by Paul McCarthy from the Australian Beyond Bullying Association. Antonio A. Casilli, MAP book series Editor, DeriveApprodi Srl, via Visso 12-14, 00157 - Rome, Italy. To order copy of the book: tel +39 06 4121 9614, fax +39 06 4124 9505, email derive.approdi@libero.it, website: http://www.ecn.org/deriveapprodi
De onde og de dumme (The Evil and the Stupid), Anne-Grete Jelstrup and Hans-Otto Loldrup. In Danish. Deals with destructive management from experiences of the interviewed persons.
Managing Britannia, Robert Protherough and John Pick deals with the destructive feature of managerialism, the culture and management in modern Britain. March 2002, The Brynmill Press Ltd
Unshrink The People establishes the clear link between happy employees, satisfied customers, profitable companies, growing economies and healthy societies
Employment for Individuals with Asperger Syndrome or Non-Verbal Learning
Disability: Stories and Strategies
Yvona Fast, Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2004, ISBN 184310766X.
Most people with Non-Verbal Learning Disorder (NLD) or Asperger Syndrome (AS)
are underemployed and many are bullied. Chapter 37 is titled Workplace
Bullying and the AS/NLD Individual by Lana Kapchinsky and Gerriann Fox.
Cobblers to the Council, Anthony Martin, ISBN 0954741501. The true story of one man's determined struggle against corruption in his local Council in Durham. Sometimes sad, often funny, this book reads like fiction but every word is true, and the chances are that something like this is going on in your council too.
In Spanish
El maltrata psicologico: como defenderse del mobbing y otras formas de acoso, Jose Luis Gonzalez de Rivera. Con descripcion de las mas eficaces tecnicas disgnosticas y terapeuticas. Details: Instituto de Psicoterapia e Investigacion Psicosomatica, avenida de Filipinas, 52 - 8ºB 28003 Madrid, teléfono de pedidos: 902 10 52 10, fax 34 91 534 29 41, email psy@terra.es
In Japanese
Bullying at Work in Japan (in Japanese), Yujiro Tokunaga, Neil Crawford, Rika Sato, NHK Publications, Tokyo, 1997, ISBN 4140803495
Stress and employer liability, Earnshaw & Cooper, IPD, 2001, ISBN 0852928785. A guide for anyone dealing with the legal side of stress and bullying. This is the updated edition of the 1996 version.
Why zebras don't get ulcers: an updated guide to stress, stress-related diseases, and coping, Robert M Sapolsky, Freeman, 1998, ISBN 0716732106. What prolonged negative stress (such as that caused by bullying, coercion, harassment and abuse) does to the body. Comprehensive.
New! Surviving Stress at Work: Understand it, Overcome it, Melanie King, Trafford, ISBN 1412054656, 2005
Understanding stress breakdown,
3rd edition, Dr William Wilkie, Newleaf, 1999, ISBN 0717129195, A$24.95. Available from
Self-Help Books, 9th Floor Silverton Place, 101 Wickham Terrace Brisbane, Queensland,
Australia 4001, or contact Manager, Michael Wilkie as follows: within Australia phone (07)
3839 9727 or fax (07) 3839 9716, International Orders - phone +61 7 3839 9727, fax +61 7 3839 9716.
"This new edition (the third) is in response to many requests from people
participating in seminars given by the author, for the inclusion of material on bullying
and male/female differences covered in the seminars but not in the
book." Chapters include The Signs of Stress Breakdown (1), Fatigue and
Exhaustion Symptoms (3), Prevention and Treatment of Stress Breakdown (5), Bullying and
Brain Washing (6), Prevention of Marriage Breakdown Under Stress (9), and Post-Traumatic
Stress Disorders (10).
Recovering damages for psychiatric injury, M Napier & K Wheat, Blackstone Press, £19.95, ISBN 1854313525
Stress at work: a guide for employers, Health & Safety Executive, HMSO, 1995, ISBN 071760733X
Authoritarian systems
Influence: Science and Practice, Robert B Cialdini, Scott, Foresman and Company, 1985
Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, Robert B Cialdini PhD
Somebodies and Nobodies: overcoming the abuse of rank, Robert W Fuller, New Society Publishers, 2003
First Things First, Stephen Covey
Child bullying and suicide
Bullycide: death at playtime, an
exposé of child suicide cause by bullying, Neil Marr and Tim Field, Success
Unlimited, 2001, ISBN 0952912120. Introduction by Jo Brand.
[Order a copy]
Trauma, PTSD and psychiatric injury
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: the invisible
injury, 2005 edition, David Kinchin, Success Unlimited, 2005, ISBN
0952912147. This is a
revised and updated edition of David Kinchin's book Post Traumatic Stress
Disorder: a practical guide to recovery originally published by Thorsons in
1994 and by Success Unlimited in 1998 and 2001. There are chapters on PTSD caused by terrorism, physical and
sexual abuse, and bullying, plus more on Complex PTSD (the new name for Prolonged Duress
Stress Disorder) and Critical Incident Debriefing. An
insider's view from a former sufferer. [Order]
Supporting Children with Post-traumatic Stress
Disorder: a practical guide for teachers and professionals, David Kinchin and
Erica Brown, David Fulton Publishers,
2001, ISBN 1853467278.
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and the Law, Trevor Hicks, Dissertation.Com
(Publisher), ISBN 158112208X, 2003
The Body Bears the Burden: Trauma Dissociation and Disease, Robert C Scaer MD, The Haworth Medical Press, NY, ISBN 0789012464
Coping with Post-Traumatic Stress, Frank Parkinson, Sheldon Press, London, 2000, ISBN 0859698432
Simple and Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder: strategies for comprehensive treatment in clinical practice, Edited by Mary Beth Williams PhD and John F Sommer Jnr BS, The Haworth Medical Press, NY, ISBN 0789002981
Trauma and recovery, Dr Judith Herman, 1992, Virago, 1999 ISBN 186049644X
I can't get over it: a handbook for trauma survivors, Dr Aphrodite Matsakis
Putting together the pieces: recovering & rebuilding life after trauma, Francess Day, Broadening Horizons, Western Australia, 2002, ISBN 9780958010207, email francess@broadening-horizons.com.au
After silence: rape and my journey back, Nancy Venable Raine, Virago Press, 1999, ISBN 186049644X
Psychological trauma, Dr Bessel A van der Kolk, 1991
Legal Abuse Syndrome, Karin Huffer
The Stormy Search for Self: understanding and living with spiritual emergency, Christina Grof and Stanislav Grof, Thorsons, 1995, ISBN 185538504X
Soulmates: understanding the true gifts of intense encounters, Sue Minns, Hodder Mobius, 2004
Sexual harassment
Making advances: what you can do about sexual harassment at work, Liz Curtis, BBC Books, 1993, £4.99, ISBN 0563369604
Harassment, violence and stalking
The Gift of Fear: survival signals that protect us from violence, Gavin de Becker, Bloomsbury, 1997, ISBN 0747536910. How to identify dangerous people before they hurt you, plus information on stalking, threat assessment, and how to terminate a troublesome employee whilst reducing the probability of physical violence. Highly recommended for everyone.
Harassment Law & Practice, Neil Addison & Timothy Lawson-Cruttenden, October 1998, ISBN 1854318349, £24.95
Beating Anger: the eight-point plan for coping with rage, Mike Fisher, ISBN 184413564-0, Rider, 2005.
Managing anger: positive strategies for dealing with difficult emotions, Gael Lindenfield, Thorsons, ISBN 0-7225-2715-2.
The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships, Harriet Goldhor Lerner, HarperCollins Publishers, ISBN 006074104X, 2005
Women Who Love Too Much, Robin Norwood. Why women marry violent men.
Daily Meditations for Women Who Love Too Much, Robin Norwood
The charm syndrome, Sandra Horley
Men who hate women and the women who love them, Susan Forward
Emotional Blackmail, Susan Forward and Donna Frazier
Compelled to Control: Recovering Intimacy in Broken Relationships, J Keith Miller, Health Communications USA, ISBN 1558744614, 1998
When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: how to cope, using the skills of systematic assertive therapy, Manuel J Smith, Bantam USA, ISBN 0553263900, 1985
Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men, Lundy Bancroft, Berkley Publishing Group, ISBN 0425191656, 2003
Not to people like us: hidden abuse in upscale marriages, Susan Weitzman, Basic Books, ISBN 0465090745, 2001
Emotional vampires: people who drain you dry, Albert J Bernstein, McGraw-Hill Education, ISBN 0071381678, 2002
Where there is evil, Sandra Brown, Macmillan, 1998, paperback ISBN 0-330-36757-9 price £6.99, hardback ISBN 0333721853. An inspirational account of one woman's courageous attempts to bring a paedophile and the killer of Moira Anderson to justice. Proceeds from this book will help establish a foundation to support targets of all forms of abuse to bring cases to court
The Whistleblower's Handbook, Brian Martin, Jon Carpenter Publishing, 1999, ISBN 1897766521, £10, credit card orders +44 (0)1689 870437
Whistleblowing in the Health Services, Geoff Hunt (National Coordinator, Freedom to Care), Arnold, 1998, ISBN 0340592346, £14.99. Ordering details: Medical Marketing Dept, Arnold, 338 Euston Road, London NW1 3BH, tel 0171 873 6221, fax 0171 873 6325, email arnold@hodder.co.uk
Whistleblowing in the Social Services, Geoff Hunt, Arnold, 1998, ISBN 0340652454, £15.99. Ordering details: Medical Marketing Dept, Arnold, 338 Euston Road, London NW1 3BH, tel 0171 873 6221, fax 0171 873 6325, email arnold@hodder.co.uk
Deadly Disclosures, Dr William de Maria, Wakefield Press, South Australia, 1999 (provides case studies which show bullying by toxic organisations and the government of people who disclose issues in the public interest. Also outlines the characteristics of toxic organisations, the "bullying" process as it relates to whistleblowers, including the "organisational vendetta" aimed at removing the whistleblower from the workplace and in some cases results in trumped-up charges of breaches of ethics or even criminal charges against the whistleblower. Often "whistleblowers" are merely doing their job or standing up for their beliefs - and pay a high price.)
Violence at work
Violence at Work, Duncan Chappell and Vittorio Di Martino, 1998, ISBN 9221103358, SFr25, ILO Publications, International Labour Office, CH-1211 Geneva 22, Switzerland
The violence prone workplace: a new approach to dealing with hostile, threatening and uncivil behavior, Richard V. Denenberg and Mark Braverman, ISBN 0801433967, Cornell Press, £23.95
How to Resolve Conflict in the Workplace,Gower, 2000, ISBN 0566080737
Managing the monkey: how to defuse conflicts that can lead to violence in the workplace, Mark Dawes with Denise Winn, Mindfields, 1998, £9.95 (or write to The Therapist, The Barn, Church Farm, Chalvington, Halisham, East Sussex BN27 3TD)
Violence at work: causes, pattern and prevention, edited by Martin Gill (Scarman Centre, University of Leicester), Bonnie Fisher (University of Cincinnati) and Vaughan Bowie (University of Sydney), November 2001, £25 hardback, ISBN 190324062X, Willan Publishing
The Brotherhood, Stephen Knight.
Inside The Brotherhood, Martin Short
Psychopathic personality
Without Conscience, the disturbing world of psychopaths among us, Robert D Hare, The Guilford Press, 1999. Recommended.
The mask of sanity, Hervey Cleckley, C V Mosby Publishing, Fifth Edition, 1976. The standard work on psychopathy and the damage a psychopath does to their family and those with whom they come into contact.
Toxic co-workers: how to deal with dysfunctional people on the job: working with narcissists, borderlines, sociopaths, schizoids, and others, Alan A Cavaiola, PhD, and Neil J Lavender PhD, Oakland, CA, USA, New Harbinger Publications, c2000
The Sociopath Next Door: the ruthless versus the rest of us, Martha Stout PhD, Broadway Books, ISBN 076791581
Psychopath: Emotion and the Brain, James Blair, Derek Mitchell and Karina Peschardt, to be published January 2005
Working with Monsters: How to identify and protect yourself from the workplace psychopath, John Clarke, Random House, 2005
The damage caused by a psychopath in the family
Everything she ever wanted, Ann Rule
Nutcracker: money, madness, murder: a family album, Sharna Alexander, 1986
Female violence
When she was bad: how women get away with murder, a controversial and explosive look at female aggression, Patricia Pearson, 1998, Virago Press, ISBN 1860494889. Equality means that whilst many men can be kind, caring and nurturing, some women can be just as violent as men.
Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls, Rachel Simmons, Harcourt Brace, 2002
Inside the criminal mind, Stanton E Samenow PhD, Times Books, 1984, ISBN 0812910826. Recommended.
Straight talk about criminals, Stanton E Samenow PhD, Aronson, 1998, ISBN 1568218753
Bad boys, bad men: confronting antisocial personality disorder, Donald W Black, Oxford University Press, 1999, ISBN 0195121139
Guilty by reason of insanity, Dorothy Otnow Lewis, Arrow Books, 1999, ISBN 0099406349
Demonic males: apes and the origins of human violence, Richard Wrangham and Dale Peterson, Houghton Mifflin, 1996
The plague of violence, a preventable epidemic, Mitch Hall, Checkmate Press, 2002
Violence Unveiled, Gil Bailie
Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Re-visited, Shmuel (Sam) Vaknin PhD, ISBN 8023833847. You can subscribe to Sam Vaknin's Narcissism List.
An anthropologist on Mars, Oliver Sacks, Picador, ISBN 0330343475
Bullying: a resource guide for parents and teachers, Vivette O'Donnell, Attic Press, 1995, ISBN 1855941759, see web page for details
The Anti-bullying Handbook, Keith Sullivan, Oxford University Press, ISBN 0195583884, £9.99
Why Is Everybody Always Picking on Me?, Terrence Webster-Doyle
Bullies Are a Pain in the Brain,Trevor Romain, free spirit publishing, 1997
Time to tell 'em off, a pocket guide to overcoming peer ridicule, Deanna Miller, 2002, ISBN 1931381580
Bully Busting: how to help children deal with teasing and bullying, Evelyn Field, Finch, 1999
Breaking The Silence - A Guide To Helping Children With Complicated Grief, Linda Goldman (includes two chapters on bullying)
Does Your Child Have a Hidden Disability? Jill Curtis, Hodder and Stoughton, September 2002, £7.99. 'Invisible' disabilities are often hard to understand, and there is a section in the book about being extra vigilant about bullying of children with special needs.
The Bully, The Bullied and the Bystander, Barbara Coloroso, HarperCollins
Encounters with Every-Day Angels, Kathy Noll, A Workbook on Bullying and Character Development
Bullying in Secondary Schools: What It Looks Like and How To Manage It, Keith Sullivan & Mark Cleary & Mark Cleary, Paul Chapman Educational Publishing, 2003
More books on school bullying and child bullying.
Gay and lesbian issues
One of the boys: masculinity, homophobia and modern manhood, David Plummer, Haworth Press, New York 1999, ISBN 1560239735 (hard), ISBN 1560239743 (soft)
Assertiveness, building confidence and self-esteem
See Gael Lindenfield's range of books including Assert Yourself, Superconfidence, Managing Anger, and more.
Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, Nathanial Branden, 1994
Self-Esteem at Work: How Confident People Make Powerful Companies, Nathaniel Branden, 1998
Mastering Assertiveness Skills at Work by Elaina Zuker, 1983
Fearless Living: live without excuses and succeed beyond your dreams, Rhonda Britten
Mentoring Yourself: how to connect with your inner wisdom, a guide for women to self-empowerment, Diann Rodgers-Healey
Taming your inner brat: a guide for transforming self-defeating behavior, Pauline Wallin PhD
Diet, nutrition and health
Natural Highs: how to stay happy, relaxed and 'high', Patrick Holford and Dr Hyla Cass, Piatkus, ISBN 0749922540
Tired of being tired, Dr Jesse Lynn Hanley and Nancy DeVille, Penguin Books, ISBN 0141006803
Mind, body and spirit
Suggested reading on the Trauma and Spirituality page
The Oxford Stress and Trauma Centre bookshop
The Inner Bookshop, 111 Magdalen Road, Oxford OX4 1RQ: mind, body, spirit, esoteric, holistic, paranormal, contact experience etc.
Books recommended by readers, authors, surfers and survivors
Employment Law Fourth Edition, Gwyneth Pitt, Sweet and Maxwell, ISBN 0421690100
Questions that work: How to Ask Questions That Will Help You Succeed in Any Business Situation, Andrew Finlayson, Amacom, May 2001, ISBN 0814470777
The First 90 Days: Critical Success Strategies for New Leaders at All Levels, Michael Watkins, Harvard Business School Publishing, ISBN 1-59139-110-5
People of the Lie, M Scott Peck
The Wounded Spirit, Frank Peretti (for a Christian view on bullying, recommended by several people)
Games people play, Eric Berne
More games people play, Eric Berne
A Layman's Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity, and Non Resistant Methods, Stanley Popovich, Treble Heart Books, 2004
Boundaries - where you end and I begin, Anna Catherine, ISBN:0671791931, Fireside, 2000
Cain and Abel at work, Gerry Lange and Todd Domke
What you think of me is none of my business, Terry Cole Whittaker
Emotional Vampires, Albert J. Bernstein
Stalking the Soul, M F Hirigoyen
The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine Aron
It's Never Been Easy: a true story of abuse and recovery, Brenda McGuffee, Winepress Publishing
Why people don't heal, Caroline Myss
Dealing with Difficult People, Roberta Cava, Piatkus
The Emotional Brain: the mysterious underpinnings of emotional life, Joseph Ledoux, Phoenix, ISBN 0753806703
Gaslighting: How to Drive Your Enemies Crazy, Victor Santoro
Confronting Conflict, Friedrich Glasl, 1999, Hawthorn Press, ISBN 186989071X
Where egos dare, Dean McFarland and Paul Sweeney, July 2000
The Wounded Heart: Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse, Dan B Allender, PhD., Colorado Springs, CO, USA, NavPress, Revised 1995, Paperback ISBN 0891092897. Contact publisher at http://www.navpress.com
The Wounded Heart: A Companion Workbook for Personal or Group Use. Dan B. Allender and Karen Lee-Thorp. Colorado Springs, CO, USA,, NavPress, Revised 1995, Paperback ISBN 0891096655. Contact publisher at http://www.navpress.com
The Healing Path: How the hurts in your past can lead you to a more
abundant life, Dan B. Allender, PhD. Colorado Springs, CO, USA, WaterBrook
Press, 1999, Paperback ISBN 1578563917. Contact publisher at
http://www.randomhouse.com/waterbrook/
Narcissistic Process and Corporate Decay, Howard Schwartz
Solved: The Mystery of Life, Vernon Howard
Prisons We Choose To Live Inside, Doris Lessing, Anansi Press
The Tipping Point, Malcolm Gladwell
Corporate Abuse, Lesley Wright and Marti Smye
Shame: The Power of Caring 3rd Edition, Gershen Kaufman PhD
Dynamics of Power: Fighting Shame and Building Self Esteem, Gershen Kaufman PhD and Lev Raphael PhD
In sheep's clothing: understanding and dealing with manipulative people, George K Simon Jr, Ph.D
The membership organization: achieving top performance through the new workplace community, Jane Galloway Seiling, Davies-Black Publishing, ISBN 089106110X
Paradigm Conspiracy, Denise Breton and Christopher Largent, Hazelden, ISBN 1-56838-106-9
Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling, John Taylor Gatto
Getting to yes: negotiating agreement without giving in, Fisher R, W Ury and B Patton, Penguin Books, New York, 1981, 1991, ISBN 0140157352
Getting past no: negotiating your way from confrontation to cooperation, Ury W, Bantam Books, New York, 1991, 1993, ISBN 0553371312
Getting together: building relationships as we negotiate, Fisher R and S Brown, Penguin Books, New York, 1988, ISBN 0140126384
Daring To Be Different: A Manager's Ascent to Leadership, James A Hatherley, Bellwether-Cross Publishing, ISBN 1881795225
The Lucy Doll, Diane Jarvis Jones, 32pp, softcover, colour illust, age 3-7, ISBN 0969940734. A new Canadian resource picture book on bullying for children, see http://www.smartt.com/~mbuttons/ld.html
Dogs Are Barking, Mark Taylor, irrePRESSible, 210 pp, ISBN 0958689687. A novel, based on real-life experience, of bullying and intimidation in a military college. See http://www.irrepressible.com.au/DAB.htm#about
Last Summer At Barebones, Diane Baker Mason, a novel narrated by Dee Graham - a fortyish journalist who lives and works alone, scribbling stories for a tabloid rag. She's a recluse, a sleepwalking near-anorexic, still struggling to forget her miserable childhood as an enormously fat, compulsive overeater, despised and picked on by all.
The Addictive Organization, Anne Wilson Schaef and Diane Fassel, ISBN 0062548743 pbk
Queen bees and wannabes, Rosalind Wiseman
The problem of evil, C S Lewis
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